Why I Have a Love/Hate Relationship with The Woman



When a country lawyer finds a near-feral woman in the woods of his property, he gets an idea.  He’ll capture and culture her.  With the assistance of his family, he’ll “save” her from her wild ways and bring her to civilization.  What could possibly go wrong?

The Woman is the 2011 follow-up to Offspring and is directed by Lucky McKee.  Starring Pollyanna McIntosh as The Woman, Angela Bettis as Belle, Sean Bridgers as Chris, Lauren Ashley Carter as Peggy, and Zach Rand as Brian.

theWoman_allDolledUpRarely does a film come along that both excites and terrifies me.  The Woman is a film that’s been called a must-see horror masterpiece and I agree, but my praise comes with a warning.

The Woman is a deeply disturbing work whose content will not be readily forgotten.  Years after seeing the film for the first time, I find myself subconsciously thinking about its visual imagery and motifs.  When watching the film again recently in order to write this commentary, I had to repeatedly stop the film and walk away in order to regain my composure.

The Woman has that kind of affect on me.

With themes of misogyny, slavery, domestic abuse, and the fight for dominance, there’s little about the film that doesn’t work to expose the very darkest parts of the human soul.  Forget for a moment that the film features graphic depictions of torture, abuse, and sexual assault.  At the heart of the film, we’re still talking about a man who thinks he has the right to supplant a woman’s existence with the one he chooses for her.  This act – in and of itself – is a kind of violation that I find incredibly distasteful.

It makes for great horror.

I’ve often said that successful horror films hinge on the human factor – empathy and sympathy must be ever-present inwoman closeup the development of the story and its characters.  With The Woman, not everyone in the audience is on the same page.

For some, the themes may be presented in too-heavy a hand for comfort.  Some will feel it paints all men as evil and all women as oppressed.  I’m sorry but I have to take a stand here and say those people are wrong.  It’s just a film with a scope limited to this particular man, Chris Cleek, his horrible adolescent son, Brian, and this particular set of women.  Saying this film is a depiction of all men and all women is too idiotic to address further.

I mean, come on.  It’s not called All the Men and All the Women.  It’s called The Woman.

the-woman-luckymckee-angela-bettisIt does raise an interesting point, though, about how “normal” people can become “evil” in a particular set of circumstances.

Even though Chris is shown to be mentally, physically, and sexually abusive to the women in his life, it’s interesting to watch how the rest of the characters begin to change following the arrival of the woman.  Especially Belle.  As the mousy, abused wife of Chris, she is almost relived to have the focus of her husband’s enmity turned elsewhere.

As for Chris’ bizarre fixation on the woman, I was disgusted (as were most of you, I’m sure) by the affect it has on his son, Brian.  In his own right, Brian’s adolescent curiosity with regard to the woman is upsetting and deeply disturbing.   From behind his dead shark eyes, you can almost see Brian begin to formulate ideas on how men should treat women and how women should behave in return.

That sh*t is dark and boy does it have a talent for polarizing people.  It’s true that a man got ejected from a screening of The6968641306_7f0bb6d7bd Woman at Sundance after verbally complaining about its content.  Just do a quick search on the internet and you’ll see magnificently varied audiences reactions from “it’s perverse” to “it’s a freakin’ masterpiece!”

Performances by Angela Bettis and Pollyanna McIntosh fantastically bookend an otherwise utterly grim tale.  Sean Bridgers is largely forgettable in the role of Chris Cleek and not because the character is so vile you’ll “block him” from your memory of the film.  I have this feeling that Bridgers could have been replaced with someone older, maybe a little grittier to better affect.  His age and boyishly curly hair create a near comical air of youthful maliciousness – one born out of curiosity rather than sheer sadism and malevolence, which would have been far grislier and horrifying.

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Published by C. L. Taylor

C.L. is a BIPOC, LGBTQ+ artist & writer who pushes pixels and slings ink in her 9 to 5. She's a content producer's content producer, who's ready, willing, and able to throw down anything from illustration to animation, UI/UX design, and copy. If you want it to sparkle, evoke, or convey a story, chances are C. L. can help! Her short fiction has earned first place in category and honorable mentions in the NYCMidnight short story, micro fiction, and flash fiction contests, and has appeared in Typehouse Literary Magazine, Kaaterskill Basin Literary Journal, and anthologies by Brisk Publications and Alyson Publications. Her poetry will appear in the upcoming October issue of Versification. In her spare time, C. L. chases mindfulness and often falls asleep in savasana pose. You can catch up with her on Twitter: @ctaylor and Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cltaylor_writer/

One thought on “Why I Have a Love/Hate Relationship with The Woman

  1. Just watched it today. I agree with you. It’s a definitely a horror and not an exercise in misogyny and sadomasochism (sorta). This could have easily have been Texas Chainsaw Massacre. The father’s method, distances itself from any sorta normalcy, making it extremely unacceptable behavior. That being said, let us not forget that this and probably worse, are happening all over the world. But martyrdom was not Lucky’s intent. This is very much a horror, but it does speak, pretty candidly, about social norms. I enjoyed the film, especially Bettie Page’s performance whoops, Alexa Marcigliano’s. It got ugly real quick, at the end, and as much as I wanted it too hold back, it didn’t, but it’s ambiguous ending was gratifying in a strange way.

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